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// she's only happy in the sun.
Jul 11


every now and then i get an email in my inbox from a name i don’t recognize. the emails are from people all over the map (mostly women) that somehow stumbled upon my blog. usually, it’s by way of seeing our wedding on etsy or green wedding shoes or ruffled, and occasionally someone is trying to figure out who else is behind-the-scenes of soulpancake, but either way, they get to this little patch of cyberspace and then decide to write to me, sometimes after many months of reading my blog.

the first part of the emails is always something along the lines of “i don’t want this to sound stalkerish, but i read your blog daily”. and the thing is, that’s not stalkerish in my book. stalkerish is if you creeped around outside our windows, or started sending me locks of your hair in the mail. or your fingernail clippings. ew. but taking the time to write me a sweet email is not part of the ‘stalker’ catergory at all.

and i don’t always have time to respond to every email and sometimes people ask for advice, and i feel fresh out of words of wisdom, but i wanted you to know that your emails are always read, and often shared with dev, and it really means so much to me that perfect strangers  get some value from my sharing little glimpses of my life and the things that inspire me. so thank you for letting me know. and thank you for not being creepy and stalkerish.



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4 comments on “heart.felt.”

  1. gingermandy Says:

    love this! i really enjoy getting emails from readers who have never commented but say they enjoy reading. i saw you on soulpancake and thought your tweets were fun, then saw you had a blog and i enjoyed it so that’s how my “stalking” happened. i love how people call it stalking though, as if people write blogs to have them not be read, or that they will be creeped out if they find out someone they don’t know personally is reading. power of the internet! everyone becomes friends.

  2. bahiehk Says:

    ” power of the internet! everyone becomes friends.”

    I’m totally of this kind of ‘friendly stalkers.’

    And am blessed to have some to!!


  3. jess Says:

    :) you rock..and btw..i will be marrying my best friend. thanks for this xoxo-jess

  4. sata alana Says:

    thanks for blogging and connecting with others out there in the blogging community. you have a fresh point of view and great style and I visit your blog a few times a week (at least).

    i am marrying my best friend TOO! yeah for marrying best friends!!!!

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